Category: Family

Cheap Hearts

When my stepfather married my mother, the youngest of us was eleven. They went by themselves to another state to tie the knot. None of us were there. To say he wasn’t much of a parent is a gross understatement. But I remember two things he did that I suppose he thought were man of […]

Single-Handed

It’s the beginning of December and it seems everyone has their Christmas tree already. Pictures of family outings getting trees share my Instagram feed with families lighting Hanukkah candles.  My son put his tree up over the weekend. He mentioned that it’s a little crooked. I said, “Ours is always a little crooked.” And he […]

Topper

Once when my mother-in-law visited, I told her about a great cranberry scone recipe I found and had been baking. I was thinking she’d like them, and I should bake a batch while she was here. But before I told her of my idea, she responded by telling me that when she was in Ireland […]

Home Sweet Home

My sister in law’s youngest brother came to visit her in New Jersey once.  He spent most of his time watching tv.  There were seven channels to watch into the wee hours of the morning. I think a couple of them aired 24 hours at that time. Where he lived, there were only a few channels and […]

The Alzheimer’s Red

Less than a week after my brother got back from Viet Nam my stepfather threw him out of the house. A year before he had thrown out my oldest brother. He was recovering from an almost fatal accident that left him crippled and in need of therapy. My other brother, my sister and I left […]